Getting The Love You Want

Tens of thousands of couples worldwide have attended this Imago weekend workshop for couples based on the best-selling book, Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D, and as featured on Oprah. This lively, experiential workshop will help you turn conflict into opportunities for healing and growth. You will explore some of your emotional history to understand its impact on your daily lives and gain compassion for your partner’s story. You will leave the weekend with fresh insights, new skills, energy & hope to restore the commitment and romance in your relationship.

This workshop is for you if:

  • You want to create a strong foundation for a new relationship, and avoid past frustrations.
  • You want to turn a good relationship into a great relationship!
  • You are in a difficult relationship and want to resolve long-standing conflicts.
  • You are near break-up and want to decide if your relationship can be saved.
  • You will learn how to:

  • Develop effective new communication skills using the “Imago Dialogue”.
  • Resolve conflicts with compassion and ease.
  • Experience empathy and connection with your partner.
  • Recreate the passion, attraction, and intimacy that first brought you together.
  • Discover a path to emotional healing and spiritual evolution through your relationship.
  • We welcome heterosexual and LGBTQ couples. The format includes brief lectures, demonstrations, movie clips, music, private reflection and sharing with your partner, and small group interactions, all in a confidential setting, in the comfort of your own home. You are never required to share personal information. Please join us on this powerful journey!

    Investment: $750/couple

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    Start Right,

    Stay Connected

    Our premarital and pre-commitment workshop Start Right, Stay Connected is an excellent way for couples who are engaged, in a long-term relationship, or newly married to invest in the health of their partnership. This workshop is designed for heterosexual and LGBTQ couples.

    Participants will learn concrete tools to lay the groundwork for a conscious, fulfilling and lifelong commitment, including:

  • The relationship cycle and love languages
  • Practical tools to deal with conflict
  • Communication skills through the Imago Dialogue
  • Ways to nurture connection and intimacy
  • Presented in a fun and interactive way, the workshop focuses on practical relationship skills. You will be able to enjoy the company of other couples while maintaining privacy — all exercises are done independently. Please join us for this rich experience of learning and deepening connection!

    Investment: $400/couple

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    Thrive Intimately

    Build intimacy wherever you are in your relationship journey. Whether you are disconnected sexually or thriving erotically, this mini workshop will help you create a plan for a more fulfilling intimate life together.

    Join a small group of couples in a comfortable, safe, and welcoming online space to explore how to:

    • Awaken yourself to more aliveness in your body, mind, and spirit
    • Explore the messages you received about sex, intimacy and the body
    • Learn about your own and your partner’s pathways to desire and arousal
    • Practice attuning mindfully to yourself and your partner
    • Expand your capacity for pleasure, playfulness, and creativity

    Our approach is gentle, trauma-sensitive, sex-positive, and non-judging. You will have time to practice exercises in private off-screen with your partner. There will be time for group sharing, which is completely voluntary. Please join us for this adventure of learning and laughter about intimacy!

    We welcome heterosexual and LGBTQ couples. The format includes brief lectures, demonstrations, movie clips, music, private reflection and sharing with your partner, and small group interactions, all in a confidential setting, in the comfort of your own home. You are never required to share personal information.

    Investment: $300/couple

    May 10 & 11, 2025

    Couples Workshop in Barcelona

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    getting the love you want

    9am - 7pm CET

    October 11 & 12, 2025

    Couples Workshop in Barcelona

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    Getting the love you want

    9am - 7pm CET

    After attending a Getting the Love You Want weekend workshop we were pleased to discover an ongoing opportunity to practice the dialogue skills we learned at the workshop. The biweekly Couples’ Café has been a positive, relaxed, and encouraging opportunity to engage in meaningful dialogues. Attending it regularly has been the key to sustaining the growth we’ve experienced since learning the Imago Dialogue. And it’s fun to learn and grow in this process with other couples.

    —Troy & Virginia

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